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Former foster parent explains why she left the CYFD system

Former foster parent explains why she left the CYFD system
PLACES FOR KIDS TO GO. ONCE AGAIN, HERE’S JOHN CARDINAL IN THIS HOME LIVES, SERENA TALAMANTES. SO THESE ARE MY TEENAGE BOYS AND HER THREE BOYS, ALMOST 19, 17 AND 15 ARE NOT ALONE. AND THEY’RE ALL REALLY SPECIAL, SPECIAL KIDS. TALAMANTES IS A MOTHER TO SEVEN CHILDREN. IT’S A SOAPSTONE SCULPTURE FROM AFRICA. TWO OF HER KIDS CAME FROM INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION AND FOUR FROM FOSTER CARE. WE HAVE FAMILY AND WE HAVE EACH OTHER, AND THAT’S REALLY IMPORTANT. AND IN HER HOME, WE SAW THIS PICTURE HANGING IN A RESTAURANT HANGS A PAINTING THAT REMINDS TELAMON OF HER PAST. IT REMINDS ME OF THE PEACE THAT CAN COME WITH FAITH, WITH. WITH CARE, WITH LOVE, WITH CONNECTION, PAST CONNECTIONS THAT NEVER ENDED, WITH A FULL CONNECTION FOR THIS FORMER FOSTER MOTHER WHO STEPPED AWAY FROM CYFD. I’M SORRY. IT’S OKAY. THERE’S A LOT OF KIDS THAT STICK WITH ME, BUT. ONE OF THE REASONS THAT WE STEPPED AWAY WHEN WE DID WAS BECAUSE A POOR DECISIONS MADE FOR A SIBLING GROUP THAT WE. LOVED, THAT WE ABSOLUTELY LOVED. FOR TALAMANTES FOSTERING KIDS FOR 18 YEARS WAS BOTH DIFFICULT AND REWARDING. IT WAS THE BEST, HARDEST THING WE EVER DID. THE REASON HER FAMILY STOPPED WAS BECAUSE OF FRUSTRATION WITH CYFD AND WHAT SHE SAYS WERE THE DECISIONS THE AGENCY MADE. IT’S THE LACK OF SUPPORT. IT’S THE CHANGE THAT’S NOT HAPPENING. IT’S THE KIDS THAT ARE COMING IN AND OUT OF THE SYSTEM LIKE A REVOLVING DOOR AND YOU’RE WATCHING THESE KIDS AND AND YOU’RE WATCHING AS THEY THEY LOSE HOPE FOR THEIR FUTURE. THE LAST STRAW FOR TALAMANTES WAS WHEN SHE WAS TAKING CARE OF A GROUP OF SIBLINGS. I THINK OUR FAMILY FELL IN LOVE WITH THEM AND WE JUST WANTED TO HELP. AND EVENTUALLY WE HAD HOPED THAT WE WOULD BE ABLE TO ADOPT THEM. BUT THAT DIDN’T HAPPEN. THEY PUT THEM ALL TOGETHER WITH
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Former foster parent explains why she left the CYFD system
For Serena Talamantes, family is everything. She is a mother to seven children, two of them from international adoption and four from foster care. In her home hangs a painting, one that reminds her of the past. Past connection that never ended with a full connection, because she chose to step away from CYFD. Why? She says it was because of poor decisions made for a group of children that they loved. "There's a lot of kids that stick with me, but one of the reasons that we stepped away when we did was because of poor decisions made for a sibling group that we loved. That we absolutely loved," said Talamantes.Another reason her family stopped was because of frustrations with CYFD and what she says were decisions the agency made. "It's the lack of support. It's the change that's not happening. It's the kids that are coming in and out of the system like a revolving door. And you're watching these kids and you're watching as they lose hope for their future," she said.The final straw were the poor decisions made for the previously mentioned sibling group. She says CYFD placed them all together in an abusive setting. Talamantes says she hasn't heard about the sibling group, other than they were still in care.

For Serena Talamantes, family is everything.

She is a mother to seven children, two of them from international adoption and four from foster care.

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In her home hangs a painting, one that reminds her of the past.

Past connection that never ended with a full connection, because she chose to step away from CYFD. Why? She says it was because of poor decisions made for a group of children that they loved.

"There's a lot of kids that stick with me, but one of the reasons that we stepped away when we did was because of poor decisions made for a sibling group that we loved. That we absolutely loved," said Talamantes.

Another reason her family stopped was because of frustrations with CYFD and what she says were decisions the agency made.

"It's the lack of support. It's the change that's not happening. It's the kids that are coming in and out of the system like a revolving door. And you're watching these kids and you're watching as they lose hope for their future," she said.

The final straw were the poor decisions made for the previously mentioned sibling group. She says CYFD placed them all together in an abusive setting.

Talamantes says she hasn't heard about the sibling group, other than they were still in care.